Today's news and a little advice

So I'll start with some cool news:

On March 28th I will be speaking at an event that Indoor Tanning Is Out Alberta is holding at Kingsway Garden Mall! Woooo! So my media "agent" or whatever she is to me, wanted a picture of me for the site, not like I haven't already sent them a million, but so many of my pics I have blonde hair or doing the old myspace angle, so I had Matt take a picture of me so it's up to date and stuff.

So yeah, I am super excited/nervous about talking to a group but I am more excited than anything. Over the years I have had to get up in front of lots of people to preform music and have also been in leadership roles that don't allow for shyness. 

You know how they say to picture everyone in their underwear? 

Forget that. 

What I have always done is this:

Tell yourself you are better than everyone in the room.

You are cooler and more interesting.

This may not be true, or at least not completely true, but if you tell yourself you're the shit and ain't nobody in this room that has jack on you, you'll have the confidence. That's what it's all about. You don't have to be snobby and mean, but it helps to just think, I RULE! THESE PEOPLE WISH THEY WERE ME! GIVE THESE PEOPLE WHAT THEY CAME FOR, A WICKED AWESOME DISPLAY OF COOLNESS AND ABILITY! 

I know, I'm ridiculous. But this works I swear, I've been doing it for years. 

So what else?

I am watching cops, drinking delicious and refreshing Perrier water and happily doing laundry.

I actually like doing laundry most of the time. I am good at laundry. It's one of my many wifely talents.

ANOTHER RANDOM FACT:

KT and I are going to be making some vanilla infused vodka to drink on our trip to ghost lake this May long, and I need vanilla bean for it and I have convinced the Sous-Chef to give me a few beans. YES! Oh my god I am going to be so deliciously intoxicated on that trip whoop whoop!

So with that I am going to get back to my screening of COPS. There are so really really fucked up drunks on this one. Lovin' it.

-E.

Getting the message out to the masses

Wow, what a day! My "agent"- a lady from the coalition I am working with- hooked me up with several interviews today, CTV news was first, then 24 hours magazine, Edmonton Sun, Calgary Sun, Calgary herald, and Breakfast Television on City TV. My message is out there and I couldn't be happier. Here are links to a couple of the interviews:

http://www.edmontonsun.com/2011/12/13/tanning-bed-ban-wanted-for-those-under-18

http://www.calgarysun.com/2011/12/13/alberta-coalition-takes-aim-at-tanning-beds

I wasn't as nervous as I thought I'd be, and managed to get my point across clearly. One thing was my hair looked like crap. That I wasn't happy about. Goes to show you how vain I really am I suppose.

I am still not quite done the day yet, another photographer is coming by to take pics of me for the Calgary Herald. I truly will never know the full impact that this has on the people that read it, but it is reaching more people than I ever thought it would when I wrote that article last summer. Super cool I do say.

It's amazing though how ignorant people can be about this disease though. One thing I have encountered is idiots who actually think melanoma isn't a "real" cancer. These people are morons, I am sorry. How can you say to someone who is going through chemo that their cancer isn't a big deal? Some people need to get their heads out of their own asses. Another unfortunate thing is I know several people who STILL use tanning beds, even people close enough to me to know the living HELL I have been through this last year. I will never get this year back, and I will spend the next few years seeing doctors to make sure my cancer isn't coming back. I can't believe my experience isn't enough for these people to stop tanning. It is a real testament to the addictive nature of these beds, it's just like smoking, nobody can tell you to quit, you have to make the decision for yourself.

On the bright side, I have had many people show their support for my cause and have heard from several people that my story got them into a dermatologist to remove suspicious moles and even stopped a few young people from using tanning beds. This pleases me. I expect that with all this exposure I will have more young people thinking about their choices, that is my hope.

Anyways, thanks for reading, and please feel free to repost those links or send to someone that needs to know my story. Melanoma is CANCER and it can kill you. If it doesn't, it can destroy your life as you know it.

-E.